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make_it_work101) wrote2012-12-07 02:29 pm
make_it_work101) wrote2012-12-07 02:29 pm
Communicating! (mini blog 5)
What is communication really mean? How do you know what to say, when, and how much. Each relationship is different ( I can't stress this enough in every blog) so each couple will have different ways to approach communication.
Don't stay to quiet! If you never talk you won't have a healthy relationship. If you can't communicate now what will happen days, months, years later when it is crucial. You need to find your voice. I always look at a situation and if its something I disagree I voice my opinion but I don't let it becoming to overbearing! You don't want your partner to feel suffocated by all of your opinions. You want a fair balance of you and your partner knowing where each other stand and leaving it at that.
On an ending not I do want to say that finding your voice will determine how compatible you are with someone. You need to know how the other person is and they need to know about you. Your opinions and beliefs make you who you are! Make sure you have open communication. With that being said , your partner will be more comfortable talking to you! It's a win win when you can openly discuss issues, beliefs, and problems etc.
Don't stay to quiet! If you never talk you won't have a healthy relationship. If you can't communicate now what will happen days, months, years later when it is crucial. You need to find your voice. I always look at a situation and if its something I disagree I voice my opinion but I don't let it becoming to overbearing! You don't want your partner to feel suffocated by all of your opinions. You want a fair balance of you and your partner knowing where each other stand and leaving it at that.
On an ending not I do want to say that finding your voice will determine how compatible you are with someone. You need to know how the other person is and they need to know about you. Your opinions and beliefs make you who you are! Make sure you have open communication. With that being said , your partner will be more comfortable talking to you! It's a win win when you can openly discuss issues, beliefs, and problems etc.