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make_it_work101) wrote2012-09-26 10:05 am
make_it_work101) wrote2012-09-26 10:05 am
Frienship mini blog 8
Have you ever met someone for the first time and you're automatically attracted to them? Wether it's their personality, looks, beliefs, or all of the above you know you're crushing hard. Liking someone without really knowing them can be very exciting but very risky at the same time.
The thing I want to really stress in this blog is friendship. Even if you just met someone and you got right into dating you have to become best friends. When you start to develope a deep friendship you're taking your relationship to the next level. The reason friendship is very important is because you develope the essentials for the relationship. Think about your very best friend. What do you have with that person that you don't have with anyone else? I can tell you that if it's strong friendship then you have trust, fun, commitment to the friendship, and most of all love for that person. When you begin a relationship the best way to fire up your friendship is to find the things you both like to do. Spend a majority of your dates finding out the things you both like. This might sound like commonsense but I can tell you from personal expirence I was so worried about what the other person wanted to do I didn't speak up about my wants. It's very important to be openminded but outspoken at the same time. From day one a relationship is a 50/50 effort. The best thing you can do is speak your mind and let your partner speak their mind. Once you do this you will see how well you mesh with that person. If you both like each other enough you will find yourself becoming the best of friends with this person!
The thing I want to really stress in this blog is friendship. Even if you just met someone and you got right into dating you have to become best friends. When you start to develope a deep friendship you're taking your relationship to the next level. The reason friendship is very important is because you develope the essentials for the relationship. Think about your very best friend. What do you have with that person that you don't have with anyone else? I can tell you that if it's strong friendship then you have trust, fun, commitment to the friendship, and most of all love for that person. When you begin a relationship the best way to fire up your friendship is to find the things you both like to do. Spend a majority of your dates finding out the things you both like. This might sound like commonsense but I can tell you from personal expirence I was so worried about what the other person wanted to do I didn't speak up about my wants. It's very important to be openminded but outspoken at the same time. From day one a relationship is a 50/50 effort. The best thing you can do is speak your mind and let your partner speak their mind. Once you do this you will see how well you mesh with that person. If you both like each other enough you will find yourself becoming the best of friends with this person!
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