What if a break up does happen (mini blog 10 )

What if a break up does happen. Stop before you start thinking of all of the what if, I should've, ect. Sometimes breakups are inevitable. The main thing is when things don't workout how do move on and learn from the relationship? 

First thing is first. Realize what went wrong. So many relationships have different situations. If you had any fault the first thing you can do is be truthful. You know the truth about the situation so apologize (if needed) and forgive yourself. You can't blame yourself forever. If it is a situation where you were not at fault you have to (at some point) to forgive the other person. Forgiveness and acceptence is the first step of "the grieving process" of loosing a relationship.

Next thing you need to do is reflect. What did go wrong? Was it you? Was it the other person? Did the two of you just not go well together? Ask yourself all of these questions so that you can reflect on what happened. This step is also very important. If you reflect and are honest with yourself your likely to have a better outcome with your next relationship!

Last but not least. Don't move on if you arn't ready. The worse thing you can do is go through a breakup and try to date to soon. Everyone has a different time that they can try again. Everything comes down to time, circumstances, and healing. If you still arn't over it the WORSE thing you can do is drag someone else into the mess.

I really hope this advice helps & remember honesty is always the best policy, even if a breakup happens! & here is a variety of music that relates to breakups :) enjoy!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f0T3WAbU6tg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t8FizVKazkg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-VMFdpdDYYA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j-fWDrZSiZs
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aPWdhF-MPDM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0wO3xGxHqV8