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One thing about relationships is that arguments will happen. No one is perfect and no two people are the same. We all make mistakes, and even more so we all have a way of thinking! With this being said I am going to share with you some things I have learned from personal relationships & some stats I have learned!
First off I would like to say that you can't have a discussion when you are angry & here is why. :
In an argument when your heart rate goes over 100 beats a minute, you are incapable of hearing what your partner is trying to tell you. This means you need to take the time to calm down before you try and hear your partner. This is key to a relationship.
Next is I have learned about 65% of issues that come up in a relationships don't have a right or a wrong answer. So many arguments that happen have more then one solution. With this being said each person is so convinced their way is the right way, when in reality either person is right!
Last but not least you can't have a healthy relationship without a few disagreements. If you never disagree then you don't have any communication skills. Any relationship will have their issues come up so make sure you are communicating!
First off I would like to say that you can't have a discussion when you are angry & here is why. :
In an argument when your heart rate goes over 100 beats a minute, you are incapable of hearing what your partner is trying to tell you. This means you need to take the time to calm down before you try and hear your partner. This is key to a relationship.
Next is I have learned about 65% of issues that come up in a relationships don't have a right or a wrong answer. So many arguments that happen have more then one solution. With this being said each person is so convinced their way is the right way, when in reality either person is right!
Last but not least you can't have a healthy relationship without a few disagreements. If you never disagree then you don't have any communication skills. Any relationship will have their issues come up so make sure you are communicating!
